Until recently, I've never been one to bellyache about getting older (I don't think), but it's hit me all at once in the last year or so. I find myself pinching my chubby cheeks that are all too quickly looking more like jowls and trying to calculate how many years I need to save a few bucks to afford that Lifestyle Lift I keep hearing about. In my earlier years, I was used to casually flirtatious smiles from men, not that I was a terrific "looker," but lately I've noticed that I've become completely invisible. It's not fair that this happens to so many women. I am heartened by those who simply AREN'T invisible EVER! Some women, like my wonderful sister, just look better every year, and glow from the inside out. I dedicate this post to all of you like her who inspire me and many others. And since I am more of a clotheshorse--ugh, not a flattering phrase--than is good for me, I'll get some of my shopping itch out of my system by posting a list of cool blogs that feature interesting fashion and accessories and general tips and inspiration for women over 30, 40, 50, or older!